Uncertainty, ambiguity, and change

I can’t remember the last time I saw a job posting that didn’t list among the skills needed for the role “Able to navigate uncertainty” or “Comfortable dealing with ambiguity.” Given the speed with which the workplace (and the world) is evolving, it’s not a surprise that uncertainty and ambiguity are common threads. What do they say? Change is the only thing you can count on? If ever there was a year to test my Read more…

The joy of working with people again

For the last 8 months, I’ve been working solo. A lot of writing, a lot of thinking, a handful of one-on-one calls each month. In my ​very first Insights post​, I wrote about this transition: redefining what it looks like to be productive and shaking my long held image of what “work” looks like (meetings upon meetings upon meetings). Over the last three weeks, I have had the pleasure of running my first workshop series: Read more…

How to leave a job

(For the record, image above is NOT the recommended answer to the post title. 😂) I once gave an informal talk to a group of junior colleagues about my personal career path. They asked if I had any regrets. My answer was no, but there is one thing I did that I would have done differently if I could do it again. When I was teaching high school, I was also an assistant coach for Read more…

The gender pay gap doesn’t exist

Picture this: The leadership team of a small nonprofit organization is at its annual retreat. The makeup of the leadership team is mostly white, mostly women. These are the senior-most leaders from the organization; all of the people in the room have at least 20 years of professional experience. This group is not new to each other – all have worked at the organization for 5 or more years. The group engages in a game Read more…

Midyear Reflections

Can you believe it’s July? I can’t. At my last job, July marked the beginning of the planning year. Annual goals were set for July 1 – June 30. I was responsible for facilitating the goal setting process for the leadership time (and effectively, if done right, for the rest of the organization). It was a Herculean effort to get people to produce a decent set of focused, aligned, and measurable goals. The process started Read more…

It was like family, until it wasn’t

In his book ​The Good Enough Job​, Simone Stolzoff shares a powerful lesson about defining your identity as more than what you do for work. There’s so much pressure to “love what you do, and you’ll never work a day in your life.” There’s a danger in giving work all of your best energy and not tending to the other aspects of your life – even if you absolutely love it. Stolzoff shares a number Read more…

The Power of Belonging

When I was a Chief of Staff, I was new to the role and to the organization. I spent a lot of time and energy navigating the newness of the situation, and even without the element of learning it would have been a challenging job. I loved the role itself – but it’s probably the most complex role I’ve ever had.  It can be a lonely job – you are rarely a part of a Read more…

Situation, Behavior, Impact, *Ask*

Back in April I wrote a series on the importance of feedback. If you weren’t a subscriber yet or want a refresher, you can access the ​full series here​. In the final part of the series, I referred to a framework for providing behavioral feedback – the SBI framework (Situation – Behavior – Impact). I like it because it takes the emotion out of giving feedback, it allows you to get specific and evidence-based, and Read more…

Planning for a promotion

I once worked with an organization with a wildly broken and inequitable compensation system. Hiring was driven completely by individual hiring managers, and it was up to them to advocate for whatever salary they felt appropriate. This means that people started at very different starting points depending on their team. Then there was the mess of promotions. In my experience there are two distinct paths to an increase in compensation – one is a promotion, Read more…