Situation, Behavior, Impact, *Ask*

Back in April I wrote a series on the importance of feedback. If you weren’t a subscriber yet or want a refresher, you can access the ​full series here​. In the final part of the series, I referred to a framework for providing behavioral feedback – the SBI framework (Situation – Behavior – Impact). I like it because it takes the emotion out of giving feedback, it allows you to get specific and evidence-based, and Read more…

Planning for a promotion

I once worked with an organization with a wildly broken and inequitable compensation system. Hiring was driven completely by individual hiring managers, and it was up to them to advocate for whatever salary they felt appropriate. This means that people started at very different starting points depending on their team. Then there was the mess of promotions. In my experience there are two distinct paths to an increase in compensation – one is a promotion, Read more…

What’s your type?

Have you ever taken a personality test? I am kinda obsessed with them, especially now that they are freely accessible. I think I probably took my first Myers-Briggs test when I was in college or maybe in my first job. I could never remember the results – mainly because all the letters sound the same. A few years ago I found ​www.16personalities.com​ and suddenly I can remember. This methodology is Myers-Briggs-esque, but has some additional Read more…

Servant leadership – or “serve me” leadership?

I once observed a manager who claimed to subscribe to the philosophy of servant leadership. She had an admirable practice of meeting early-on with new team members about her philosophy and her preferred ways of working. She dropped the term servant leadership into those orientations and into hiring discussions as something she was looking for in the people on her teams as well. Yet in practice, I’m not sure her ways of being were completely Read more…

Good benefits or golden handcuffs?

Last week I was talking to a colleague about a job lead. In the course of the conversation, he used the term “golden handcuffs” to describe the perks of a job that he otherwise should have left. He said, “the place was a mess and wasn’t using my skills or providing any growth opportunities, but man, did those golden handcuffs look pretty!” Full company closures in July and December (above and beyond PTO), summer Fridays, Read more…

The extra burden of invisible illness

This month I am hobbling around on a walking boot. (Apparently I somehow tore a muscle in the bottom of my foot doing nothing more than walking the dog around the block.) I had plans to travel into NYC multiple times this month, and I was determined not to let the boot impact my plans. My first trip was low-stakes – I went to visit a friend so I didn’t have a set time that Read more…

“Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”

Earlier this week, I wrote about the ​Career Roadmap ​– a visual map of critical inflection points along an emerging or developing career path. As I worked through the pieces of the Career Roadmap with a colleague, we uncovered another early challenge might arise for folks as they are mapping out their journey. “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” Ah, the dreaded interview question. I hated that question in my earliest interviews! How Read more…

An origin story: The Career Roadmap

Last week Almavina Strategic Partners launched our first product – the Virtual Mentor. It is a set of free resources that are anchored in the “Career Roadmap.” But what is the Career Roadmap? I’m glad you asked! A few weeks ago I had lunch with a longtime friend and colleague. We discussed the opportunity for supporting early- mid-career professional women, noting the gap in this kind of support that exists at the organizational level. My Read more…

“I have some feedback for you…”

For the final installment of the feedback series, it’s time to address the hardest kind – behavioral feedback. Giving feedback on another person’s actions or behaviors feels SO personal, and can be really difficult to do well. Especially if one generally likes to avoid conflict, it can feel easier to withhold feedback than to give it. The problem is, tolerance is a slippery slope! And avoiding feedback is not the same as avoiding conflict – Read more…

Feedback that “does more” (Feedback series, part 3)

Feedback is essential when you are doing something risky. Something brave. Something that challenges you. While receiving feedback in those situations can be scary, the absence of feedback in some ways feels much worse. In the first installment of this series, I wrote  “anything is better than nothing.” This is the minimum bar. When someone produces work for you or takes a risk in their work, give them something. Anything at all to recognize their Read more…